Sometimes, all you have to do is nothing,
because if you do something,
everything you do will result
in what you should have done-
your actions will give you nothing.
You have to be patient enough to let things unfold on their own.
My mum bought lots of magic towels years ago. You would put them in water and watch them unfold/increase in size.
Many things are like magic towels. If you try to stretch them out or assist them in the way that they develop/turn out, you’ll “tear” (destroy) them, ruin the magic (and hurt yourself).
Get your bucket of water- do all that you think is right, sit, and be patient.